Moms In Shape

When I think about the unshakable mindset, it’s really an important thing. Being unshakable brings up imagery of a wall. Last week we talked about Enthusing and what it can do for your clients.  Sometimes people can get stuck on what seems to be a barrier or unshakable mindset. Their thougths and actions are gravitated toward that which continues to keep them from getting what they want. Enthusing is a great tool becuase it can break through the barrier with acknowledgement and excitement which will move them forward. 

When I think about what it would be like if everyone were enthusing it would be wonderful. Everyone would win in the situation since enthusing carries such a high energy that it would elevate the person enthusing as well as the one being enthused. 

I notice that people do not often use enthusing as the technique to get what they want, it’s usually based on their own ego, nagging, manipulating, anger, etc.  When I notice there is enthusing taking place, the situation is much easier, lighter and is a win for both.

When I use enthusing for myself, I can see the benefits from both sides. It feels better to enthuse others! They are also more willing to go about what you ask.

As I think about today’s class about acknowledgement, I realize the power of this small gesture.  Throughout the class we talked about the affects of acknowledgement: what happens when people are acknowledged? Many of the outcomes were about opening up new levels of confidence, approaching a relationship in a different way, seeing a new perspective about somebody else and even breaking through frustration.  These were all amazing outcomes considering the effort was made in a warm and heart felt way. Often times we are so accustomed to working things out through conversing and going back and forth between want, should and have to; that the communication for what truly is needed becomes lost.  Through acknowledgement the truth is able to come to the surface safely allowing for a more positive and forward moving outcome.

I have seen this work wonders in my own life, especially with my two small children. Any acknowledgement they recieve is fully expressed with glee on their sweet little faces.  The more positive acknowledgement they recieve the stronger their confidence becomes and the frustration dissipates out of practically any situation. 

I understand the affects first hand as it happens in the reverse. Whenever I am acknowledged the feeling of appreciation is so strong that I can not help but feel wonderful about it.  It’s almost impossible take acknowledgement in a bad light.  The essence of acknowledging someone is a complete appreciation and understaning at the same time. 

Practicing acknowledgement on a daily basis is a great way to bring about more positive thinking which creates positive changes in all that are involved.  And it’s so simple!

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